ody Q: I was laid off. My employer refuses to give me the correct information regarding my COBRA, but continues asking for payment. My questions are not being fully answered …. I need to know to WHOM I send my COBRA check to. I requested the COBRA information packet, I asked a series of questions as far as the COBRA coverage specifics and I asked who the COBRA representative is, and I asked for a direct line to that person. I have emailed and called my HR Rep, but do not get detailed and accurate answers. The company I worked for is in a financial bind and I have doubt as to if I am ACTUALLY paying them for COBRA or if my money is going elsewhere. I have received NO COBRA information or paper work BACK from this employer.